Many people think that everything will be fine after a successful confession, but in fact, the few days after a successful confession and the establishment of a relationship are when the relationship between two people is most fragile. So what should you do at a time like this?

1. Let your appearance bring changes

You need to let your appearance bring about changes for her. Life has brought about substantial changes, making her feel: With this person by my side, it seems to be different.

And what is the core of the change? Two words, concern.

Whether it’s the figure waiting for her under the streetlight, the phone call when she works overtime, or the medicine delivered to her home when she’s sick, all of this is inseparable from one word: caring.

You want her to feel that when she was single, only her parents would always care about her; but now, you are willing to take care of her and leave a place for her in your heart.

2. Quickly insert some memorable experiences

Strike while the iron is hot, while she is still in the The fresh energy of being with you is to do more memorable things with her.

The concert that you have always wanted to go to, the restaurant that you have been thinking about for a long time, the travel route that you have planned for a long time...

Seize the time and take her to experience it all, don’t miss it In this golden age, people know how to eat, go shopping and watch movies.

Look at you, I used to flirt with people by eating, shopping and watching movies. Now I am eating, shopping and watching movies with my girlfriend. Later, I still eat, go shopping and watch movies... Just go to the restaurant and movie theater, and you will know how to treat them. Create flowing water.

Because your current state is essentially the same as your previous state. By doing this, you are upgrading the relationship between you - commemorative activities will increase your status in each other's hearts and make the other party realize By the time you entered her life, you had left a mark on her life.

If possible, keep some souvenirs: movie ticket stubs, concert souvenirs, photos of scenic spots...

In the future, you can look through them and relive the wonderful memories. .

Where does the emotional foundation come from? Isn’t it just fermented through experience and memories?

< h2>3. Start to make some long-term plans for each other

After achieving the above, the emotional foundation has basically been stable, and we no longer need to worry about the emotional variables caused by the two people not adapting to the newly established relationship. .

Then the next step is to inject long-term motivation into this relationship.

Student couples may agree to take the exam to a prestigious school of their choice or go to the same school together.Working in the city, office workers may be planning to settle down and settle down... No matter what you want to do, you must remember to involve the other person in your planning.

Because only in this way can you have enough motivation to maintain and coordinate your relationship - a happy life day by day will always be unable to withstand the accumulated wear and tear. Once friction occurs between the two parties, the relationship itself will be destroyed. It would be meaningless.