Coming out is a brave thing to do, but sometimes we get rejected. At this time, how should we win back the rejected partner? Here are a few suggestions.
1. Accept reality
First of all, we need to accept reality. If the other person has clearly rejected your confession, then you need to respect his/her decision. Don't try to force your way back, as this will only make the other person more resentful.
At the same time, you must also learn to let go of your emotions. Although it is difficult, only in this way can you get yourself out of the shadows.
2. Keep your distance
After being rejected, you need to give the other person some time and space to think calmly. Do not contact the person frequently or appear in front of him/her. This will only make the other person think you are annoying.
Instead, you can choose to temporarily distance yourself from the other person so that both of you have time to think about your feelings. This will also help relieve tension.
3. Change yourself
If you really want to win back the rejected partner, then you need to change yourself. First, you need to think carefully about your problem. Is it because his personality is too strong? Or is it because you didn’t give the other person enough attention and love?
Next, you need to take action to change these problems. For example, you can learn to listen better to what the other person is thinking and feeling, or spend more time with the other person.
4. Re-establish contact
When you feel the time has come, you can try to re-establish contact . But pay attention to the method and timing. Don't choose to disturb the other person when he/she is depressed or busy.
At the same time, you need to be patient and honest during the process of reconnecting. Don't try to hide your true feelings or create a false impression.
5. Don’t expect too high
Finally, we need to be clear about the fact that it is not easy to win back a rejected partner. Even if you have taken the above measures, there is no guarantee that the other party will re-accept you.
Therefore, in the process of recovery, we need to stay rational and calm. Don't expect too much, and don't pin your happiness on the other person.
It takes a lot of effort and patience to win back a rejected partner. However, only if you truly love someone will you be willing to do this for him/her.
