In today's society, blind date has become a common way to make friends and find a partner. However, for some people who are introverted and stupid, they often face the embarrassing situation of having no topic to chat during the blind date.

We must understand that being introverted and stupid is not an unchangeable flaw. Introverts often feel shy and unconfident in social situations, which may cause them to act more reserved on blind dates. Being clumsy may be due to a lack of skills and experience in expressing one's ideas.

So, how to solve the problem of running out of topics to chat on a blind date?

Preparing topics in advance is a good way. Before going on a blind date, you can learn about the other person's interests, hobbies, work, etc. through introducers or other channels, and then prepare some relevant topics in a targeted manner. For example, if the other person likes traveling, you can prepare some topics in advance about popular tourist attractions or unique travel experiences. In this way, when communicating, the other party can feel your concern and intention for her, and it will be easier to resonate.

Improving communication skills is also key. You can participate in more social activities and exercise your ability to communicate with others. During activities, take the initiative to communicate with others and learn how to better express your opinions and ideas. At the same time, pay attention to what the other party has to say and respond positively to make communication smoother and more enjoyable.

Getting outside help can also help. You can ask friends around you who are good at communication for their experience, or ask family members to give you some communication suggestions. For example, friends may remind you to pay attention to the tone and way you speak, and family members may tell you some taboos about communicating with the opposite sex.

It’s not terrible to be introverted and dumb when chatting without a topic. As long as we are willing to actively change, by preparing topics in advance, improving communication skills and using outside help, we will definitely be able to show a better version of ourselves during a blind date and increase the number of people we talk to. A chance to find true love.

Let us take this step bravely, work hard to overcome difficulties, and believe that beautiful love is waiting for us not far away.