When chasing a girl, when the girl asks "What do you like about me?", most boys don't know how to answer, fearing that the wrong answer will offend the other party. When a girl asks you what you like about me, what answer is the answer she wants?
In fact, this question is the same as a teacher asking a student "Why are you late?" On the surface, he wants to get you Explanation, in fact, is to get your reasonable argument process.
Explanation is to make the facts easier to understand, the simpler the better; argumentation makes the point of view more credible, the more comprehensive the better. The answer girls want is your argument process, not your explanation.
Why is it that when a girl asks what you like about me, your answer is never what the girl wants, or in other words, it never satisfies the girl?
Let's assume a scenario now:
Female: Why do you like me?
Male: Because you are beautiful. ——This is the explanation.
When you and I met at the right time, I believed that a person like you really existed, and we actually became a man and a woman when you were not married and I was not married. , got to know each other. So I fell in love with you. (You can list the details you like about the other person) - This is an argument.
When you give an explanation of the answer, the other party does not get the answer she wants, and what she wants is a reliable argument with a value judgment.
It’s like you want to praise someone who is less confident:
“You are so beautiful!” - This sentence will not make the other person happy, but will make her feel Embarrassed and embarrassed because she didn't think she was beautiful.
"The clothes you wore today suit you so well, and you look particularly elegant." - No matter who you say this to, I believe no one will feel uncomfortable, because you have observed the other person in detail , the other party will feel that you are sincere, so they will be happy to accept your compliments.
So, when a girl asks you what you like about me, we have to give the answer that the girl wants based on the different stages of our relationship with the girl.
1. We just met, testing my mentality
Girl: Why do you like me?
Men: Everyone has a responsibility to care for children
This kind of girl does not need to answer directly, the girl you just met must be testing you, tell the girl directly, the big brother is just protecting the little girl, no It will expose her sense of need, thereby increasing her challenge to you.
2. I have already had a date to test your feelings
Female: I’m home
Male: I’ve just arrived too, you should go to bed early
Female: I had a great time going on a date with you today. I want to ask you somethingQuestion, why do you like me?
Male: I will date you only if I have feelings for you. If I like you, it depends on your performance
Dating girls is very happy, which proves that both parties We all have a crush on you. A girl has invested time and affection in you, so don’t confess her feelings too quickly at this time. At this time, the answer should be both forward and backward, expressing your good impression of the girl, but not too full to make her proud, so that she will work harder to win your approval. In this way, you can also keep track of the progress of subsequent upgrades in the relationship.
3. They are about to become a couple or are already boyfriend and girlfriend
Girl: Why do you like me?
Male: You are different from other girls who chase me. You are more considerate and caring about me, and sometimes you are silly and cute, which makes me want to take care of you for the rest of my life.
At this point in the relationship, the girl’s heart is already yours. The answer girls want is nothing more than sweet words. We can directly satisfy the girl's psychology. At the same time, we need to tell the girl that she likes her shortcomings, she is silly and cute, she likes her with advantages, and she likes her with shortcomings. This answer is more Appear sincere.
