Recently, I had a chat with friends about the little wisdoms in love, and it felt quite interesting. As someone who has been through it, I've also summarized some experiences. Today, I'd like to share them with you, hoping to offer some inspiration to those who are in love or about to be.

First of all, women really shouldn't try too hard in love. Sometimes, we always hope that the other person can understand us, can guess our thoughts, but the reality is often that men are not that sensitive. So, rather than expecting the other person to read every look and gesture, it's better to express yourself directly. For example, when you like something, just tell him "I like this," instead of saying "I don't want it." This avoids misunderstandings and makes your relationship smoother.

Speaking of "I don't want it," this is actually a very interesting topic. Women often say the opposite in love, especially in three situations. The first is when you see something you like, you say "I don't want it," but actually, you hope the other person will buy it for you. At this time, men should pay attention, if you really like her, why not be generous and give her a surprise. The second situation is when you're angry, a woman says "Don't talk to me," but the subtext is "Come and comfort me." At this time, men should definitely not ignore her, otherwise, the consequences could be serious. The third situation is when kissing, a woman says "No, no," but she's actually being coquettish. At this time, men need to discern; if she's just gently pushing you away, then you can continue, but if she's pushing you away forcefully, then you really need to stop.

These reverse signals are something men must understand, otherwise, it's easy to cause misunderstandings. As my friend said, the worst thing in love is "You don't say, I don't understand." So, women also need to learn to express their feelings directly, not always making the other person guess.

Finally, what I want to say is that the wisdom in love is not just about understanding the other person's reverse signals, but more importantly, learning to communicate and understand. Everyone has their own way of expressing themselves, and only through continuous communication and understanding can the relationship become more stable. I hope these little tips can help you, and I wish everyone can find their own happiness.

By the way, what other little wisdoms do you have in love? Feel free to share in the comments!