Recently, I had a chat with a few close girlfriends about the topic of dating, and we all had a lot of thoughts. One friend said, "I finally got into a relationship recently, but I feel like dating is really hard!" This statement immediately resonated with everyone. In fact, dating can be both difficult and simple; the key is to master some skills and wisdom. Today, I will share some things that women should pay attention to in relationships, based on my own experiences and stories from friends around me.

First, don't become a "love addict." I have a friend who, when she was in a relationship, completely immersed herself in it, thinking about nothing but her boyfriend every day. What happened? Her boyfriend felt too pressured and eventually broke up with her. After the breakup, she completely fell apart, lost her job, and her life was in disarray. So, while love is important, don't let it become your entire life. You need to have your own career, friends, and hobbies. This way, even if your relationship hits a rough patch, you won't be left with nothing.

Second, don't over-give. I have a classmate who lived with her boyfriend for four years, doing all the laundry, cooking, and even washing his feet. She thought she was being a good partner, but in the end, her boyfriend still broke up with her, saying, "I need a wife, not a servant." This statement is heartbreaking, but it reminds us that love is a two-way street. Over-giving will only make the other person take you for granted, or even look down on you. Remember, you deserve to be loved, not treated like a "maid."

Third, protect yourself. Pre-marital cohabitation is quite common these days, but I personally recommend not moving in together too early. After all, you haven"t fully gotten to know the other person, and moving in too soon might put you in a passive position. Even if you do live together, make sure to take protective measures to avoid unexpected pregnancies. I have a friend who had to rush into marriage because of an unplanned pregnancy, and her married life hasn't been happy. So, take responsibility for your body, and don't let a moment of impulsiveness ruin your future.

Fourth, don"t rush to find a partner. Many women feel that being single is scary and are in a hurry to find a boyfriend. In fact, being single isn't scary; what's scary is settling for someone just to avoid being alone. I have a friend who, because she was afraid of being lonely, quickly found a boyfriend, only to realize that he wasn't right for her. When they broke up, she was even more hurt. So, don't rush to find a partner. Instead, focus on improving yourself and finding someone who truly suits you.

Finally, maintain confidence and independence. In relationships, many women tend to feel inferior, thinking they're not good enough or don't deserve their partner. In reality, confidence is the most attractive quality. Believe that you deserve love and happiness. At the same time, maintaining financial and emotional independence is crucial. This way, even if your relationship encounters problems, you can handle them calmly and won't lose yourself by being too dependent on the other person.

In summary, dating is a subject that requires wisdom and skill. I hope these tips can help those who are currently in a relationship or preparing to enter one. Remember, while loving others, also love yourself well. After all, you are the protagonist of your own life.