No matter how we meet a girl, we all enhance the relationship through chatting. Therefore, the most important thing to chase a girl is to be able to chat. However, many boys are short of chatting, which leads to the relationship never ending after chatting for a long time. forward. Today, the editor will bring you a WeChat chat record of chasing girls. I hope you can get inspiration from it.
1. Start chat interaction
Because this is a girl we haven’t contacted for a long time, so here we use emoticons to start the chat so that it won’t appear abrupt. We can also test the girl first to see if she is busy or not. Have you deleted us?
Usually when we start the interaction and post emoticons, some girls may reply "What's wrong?". Such a reply shows that the girls may be a little wary of the girl and feel a little bit outward, so we talk to the girl from behind. Chatting should be restrained and slowly build attraction;
And some girls may reply: "Haha" or give you an expression, just like the girl you are chatting with now, which means that this girl There is almost no feeling of being drawn out. There is a certain interest and window, so you can build attraction with this girl faster later.
Testing girls’ interests has a lot to do with our strategies for chatting with girls.
When it is tested that a girl is interested in us, then we can also release some information appropriately to show that we are also interested in her.
Reply here "Are you so happy because you saw a handsome little brother?"+expression
The reason:
No. 1: Humorous tone+ Emoticons can add emotion to a chat. Women are all emotional, and emotions are the key to chatting, which will make girls think you are an interesting, not boring boy.
No. 2: Express confidence. Confidence is the key to charm. A confident man can inspire girls to want to know more about you.
No. 3: "Little Brother" is a nickname we made up by ourselves. The advantage of establishing such a nickname is that it can help us get closer to girls in the early stage.
(3) The girl said, "Did my handsome little brother finally remember me?"
Her words seemed to mean: "It's been so long before you remember me? What do you mean?". Maybe many brothers will explain at this time, to explain why they are like this It took a long time to contact her. In fact, this is completely unnecessary.
Why?
No. 1: Because girls are interested in me. If I explain it, the girl will take the initiative. It is not good for us to lead women. Once we explain, it becomes our own. The problem conflicts with the self-confidence mentioned above;
2nd: In fact, this further shows that the girl may have expected me to contact her before, and the reason why she said this was a bit "coquettish" from the girl's point of view, so it is even more necessary to explain.
Therefore, brothers, you can find that our replies are actually based on the specific current situation and the psychology of girls. However, many boys cannot grasp these and only use fixed routines or words. Technique, naturally you cannot quickly establish an attraction-promoting relationship with girls.
(4) I continued to reply to the girl, "Last night, Lady Guanyin entrusted me with a dream that a young lady was waiting for me at the entrance of the village. Is it you?"
We did not explain it, but Divergent thinking and humorous replies resolved the girls’ questions. The purpose of "Waiting for me at the entrance of the village" is to let girls understand that I am joking and not really dreaming. This can keep the chat interesting and make girls more interested in replying to us.
2. Start topic interaction
After we finished replying with "Guanyin", the girls were also very He replied humorously, "I am female guest No. 188 at the door."
We replied, “Are you coming back after recording If You Are the One?” and the girl replied, “Haha, no, I’m just waiting for you too much, so I’m waiting in line.”
From these rounds of chatting , what can brothers see?
It can be seen:
First: The girl still has a hint of "you contacted me so late", including my emotions, but just now We have said that we don't need to explain it at the moment.
Second: She may say "Haha, there are too many people waiting for you", which further confirms that the girl is interested. The girl said "Female Guest No. 188", which also revealed that the girl may be a little unconfident.
These pieces of information are actually the direction of the topic. In addition, the exchange of information as a topic starter can also give girls a certain sense of familiarity. In the early stages of our acquaintance with girls, familiarity and security are very important, which is related to subsequent invitations. If the sense of familiarity and security is not enough, it will be difficult to ask a girl out later.
From the girl’s next reply, we can see that this girl has no sense of security for Cancer boys, or her previous boyfriend was a Cancer and hurt her. So when we reply "Are you afraid of selling you?", the reason is to resolve it with a humorous tone instead of asking the girl why.
Then the girl herself explained the reason, saying, "It's possible, there are more cancer scumbag men, haha", which is actually true. It means "I'm afraid that Cancer boys are scumbags, and I'm afraid that you are the same, haha." It shows that this girl is indeed insecure about Cancer boys, but haha ??twoThe word shows that the girl said it in a joking tone.
From the subsequent chat, we can find that the word haha ??appears very frequently in girls’ words, which shows that the girl’s current mood is good; on the other hand, it shows that the girl is a relatively Only when you are open-minded and are interested in us can you release such emotions.
3. Change the topic
When she expressed her lack of security towards Cancer men, and we used voice reply to appropriately fill the sense of security and increase familiarity, we still need to Continuing to lead the topic, here we chose to change the topic.
From the perspective of life, "The yellow beef over there is delicious, but it's a bit far away." The girl replied, "Yellow mutton is the specialty. It's a three-hour drive." I replied, "When I graduated, it took six hours. Now I'm driving a high-speed train?" The girl replied, "I'm still fixing it."
In fact, this process is to further make us more familiar with the girl, and it is a transitional stage in the initial chat.
Many brothers put most of their energy into humor and conversational skills when chatting with girls in the early days. Little do they know that although girls may be interested in such a chat, you will know nothing about the lives of both parties. You know, the next time you chat, you will feel very strange, and the girl may suddenly become very cold.
We can avoid this situation by establishing a good sense of familiarity with girls during the initial chat. This will make subsequent chats more interactive, and the two parties will become more familiar with each other. If you invite a girl later, the girl will be more likely to agree!
4. Show yourself
Then I sent a The photo, this is a painting, and then I explained the origin of the painting to her, and also asked the girl to tell her about her occupation. In fact, this also shows that the girl is slowly sharing her interests, indicating a sense of familiarity and security. The establishment of sense is effective. Girls are willing to share. This behavior shows that girls have a certain sense of security with us.
Afterwards, it is not difficult to find that girls are more interested.
5. Establish a sense of security
A sense of security is something that girls attach great importance to. When a girl says, "Have you found the treasure boy?" I reply, "Yes, will you come to the village to play with me?" and humorously give the girl some information. Availability, guide girls.
Girls say, "Maybe the chance of me coming is relatively low, haha, the transportation in the village is inconvenient." In the early stage, girls say this, but it is just girls' reserve. Don't think it is a rejection or rejection by girls. Not interested. So we can continue to chat and interact with the girl in a humorous way.
I replied, "You also studied in Chengdu University," and the girl said "Sichuan Yin". This stage is to further establish the relationship with the girl. The process of familiarity and security.
This process is mainly about sharing with each other. From the perspective of life, we can find that both parties have common topics and the reasons why they have common topics. The topic is chosen based on girls. Generally speaking, girls are more interested in food. After the sense of familiarity and security is established, we should change the topic in time. I said "Aren't you in Chengdu?" and the girl said "I." In Bazhong." At this time, I released some availability and hints. I said, "Well, then we will have a long-distance relationship" + expression.
At this time, the girl said seriously, "Then why are you not in Chengdu?" I’m looking for so many good-looking ladies.”
This is a test for girls. I replied “Well, there is no suitable one.” After I finished replying, I continued to change the topic to life. I said, “You will be there after graduation. I'll go there." Then keep the topic in a more appropriate area, so that each party can fully understand each other, because after understanding enough, both parties will have more possibilities!
During this process , the core thinking has two points
1. Share interesting content to keep the chat interesting and have content to talk about 2. Show your own opinions
6. End the topic
When we are almost done chatting with a girl, we should end the chat and keep the atmosphere, so that the next time we chat with a girl, we will still be in a good mood and not be hot and cold.
