I have a good chat with a girl. I reply to messages almost instantly. Even if the reply is late, I will explain the reason. I think it is time to upgrade the relationship. However, every time I send ambiguous words to the girl, she will not reply. , what should we do in this situation?

1. The reason why girls don’t reply once you are ambiguous

Because you are just chatting on the Internet , there is no unnecessary contact. Once one party is ambiguous, she will naturally be afraid and dare not reply.

Girls who usually chat with you will reply quickly to your messages and will also take the initiative to chat with you. It shows that the girl has a cheerful personality. But if a girl doesn't reply once you are flirty, it may be because you are not attractive enough, or you are not her type, and she doesn't want to let go of her heart so quickly, so she doesn't know how to answer your words.

2. What should you do if a girl doesn’t respond to you once you send her an ambiguous message?

You send an ambiguous message to a girl and she Being unwilling to reply to you means that she doesn't mean that to you. She may simply regard you as a friend, or she may not be familiar with you. In this case, if you send ambiguous messages, she will feel embarrassed and not want to talk to you. Because she doesn’t like you, why should she respond to your ambiguity?

Of course, there is a very small possibility that she did not see your message, which is very low. If you don't send her ambiguous messages while you are chatting, but use ambiguous messages as the opening remarks to chat with her, and she doesn't reply to you at this time, it is possible that she did not see your message.

There are also some girls who don’t reply to you when they receive your ambiguous messages, just because they are shy and reserved, or they are not good at having ambiguous interactions with the opposite sex, and they don’t know how to reply. You, so I simply didn’t reply.

If a girl doesn’t reply to your message, you don’t need to be frustrated. Don’t want to give up because of this. Maybe she will still I'm hesitating whether to date you. She may not be completely sure about her feelings for you, and she doesn't know if she can have a long life with you.

There are also some girls who have been in love for a long time and may be used to the tricks boys use to tease girls. They know how to play hard to get, and know how to stand still when a boy takes the initiative to send ambiguous messages. They first whet the boy's appetite and make him anxious. If a boy flirts with her and she takes the bait, he will quickly lose interest in her. This kind of girl is very good at tricking boys, and she also knows how to keep boys close to her. When boys meet a girl like this, they should be smarter. If you can't be on par with her, you will end up being led by her.