Question:

Hello teacher, this girl was introduced by my colleague. She usually chats well, and there is no such thing as not replying to messages. I have met several times and it was also at my colleague's place. I had an appointment with her alone once when I was with her. Today she told me that she wanted to fall in love and asked me to introduce her to a partner. What does this mean?

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Answer:

Hello brother, you are also innocent and cute. Your colleague introduced you to each other. Isn’t this the direction of becoming a boyfriend and girlfriend?

She will Saying such words is actually a deliberate test and a sign of interest in you. If you are really stupid enough to help her introduce someone to you, you will be doomed. So at this time, you only need to say: "Don't bother looking for me, that's it. I think you are good/manually compare your feelings."

Of course, this is not absolute. She may also be entertaining you. This kind of entertainment is cruel, because to her, you are a good person of the opposite sex, but you have not yet reached the standard of becoming her boyfriend. . This sentence was just said casually to amuse you and amuse you.

It is also possible that she is rejecting you. She knows that you like her, but she does not like you. It is like using This way I tell you. Introduce me to someone, and when I have someone, you won't chase me.

So how can we identify these situations?

You can look at the normal communication situation, her attitude and feedback towards you. If she likes you, she will show it, such as chatting. She can always reply actively, with a large number of words, and she can reply quickly. She will also actively share her things. It is easier to ask her out to play, and she rarely shirks it unless there are special circumstances.

If you really can't decide, ask your colleague to put her words in the mouth and see what she thinks of you.

If she takes the initiative in all aspects, you can strike while the iron is hot and ask her out more.

Even if she doesn’t like you for the time being, you still have a chance. If she asks you to help introduce her boyfriend, it means that she is in a relationship now. During the window period, you will naturally be the first to get the moon.

Such a lonely and cold girl is relatively easier to chase. You can first infiltrate her life, show your excellent side, and increase your connection through various things. When she thinks you are very good, And when she can't live without you, it will be very easy to win her over.