It is said that chasing women requires a man to take the initiative, take the initiative to chat with women, and take the initiative to ask women out on dates. These are all easy and easy things for men who talk a lot and are outgoing. But for men who talk less, whether they are in love or chasing a woman, it is easy for the atmosphere to become cold because of their lack of words. Let’s talk about how men who talk less can fall in love and still bring women the feeling of being in love.
1. Pay more attention to behavior
In fact, women nowadays have long passed the time of hearing about love. Men do not pursue women in a nice way. They try to chase women with a few sweet words. When it comes to women, women care more about what men do than what they say. Therefore, men who talk less also have certain advantages. Usually, show more concern for women, learn more about her interests and hobbies, get along with her more, and let her see your heart behind your poor words, and she will be deeply attracted to you. .
Perhaps it is a negative point for a man to talk less at the beginning, and it is easy for him to get cold feet, but it doesn't matter, as long as you treat a woman sincerely, she can feel it.
2. Show concern for her
In fact, in the process of love, your words are more important than your words More or less words, what a woman cares more about is whether you sincerely care about her. For example, if she says she has a cold, you can take her to eat some light porridge, and then take the initiative to do housework at home. If a woman says she is tired, be careful not to disturb her too much and let her rest more. If a woman says she is cold, then buy her hand warmers, buy her thick clothes, and tell her to pay more attention to the temperature...
You should pay attention to the meaning behind the woman's words. When she finds out that you are serious Only when you care about her will she really accept you. Of course, if you find that a woman only accepts your care but does not give you the same affection, you also need to consider whether you are being a licker. Although a man who talks little cannot speak, he still needs to be self-aware.
3. Men who talk less must learn to chat
Although it was said above that men who talk less are more likely to There are certain advantages in chasing women, but if you are talkative and don't know how to speak, then it's a big no-no. Therefore, men who talk less should learn to talk more, because you cannot avoid chatting when you are in contact with women. Even if you talk less, you should still chat to make women feel comfortable and happy.
For example, don’t always ask this woman if she has eaten? Have you slept? Or something like that, learn to chat, learn to find topics, and let others have topics to interact with you. When you are chatting, you can find common topics between you to attract a woman's interest. If there are no common topics between you, the woman will not want to reply to your message at all.
So men can talk less, but first you have to learn how to chat, which is also very important. There are actually two different things between talking less and being able to chat, which you need to understand , it may be especially important that you use a small number of words to attract a woman's interest.