Quiet girls seem to be peaceful. Although many boys are attracted to quiet girls, they always feel that quiet girls are difficult to approach and they have no way to pursue them. Is it really difficult to approach quiet girls? If you like a quiet girl, how should you pursue her?
1. Are quiet girls difficult to get close to?
In fact, many quiet girls just look cold and inaccessible on the outside, but in fact they have only a normal relationship with the people they know. The people are relatively friendly.
Take me personally, I am the kind of girl who is relatively quiet, and when I am alone, I am very cold. According to what my good friend said, when I first saw me, I thought I must be a very cold, quiet kind of girl, but later I found out that I am a lunatic. I'm quite aware of this attribute of mine, because I don't like to make too many friends, so when I'm outside school, others think I'm cold, even rigid, and fierce. Therefore, I really have very few friends. Sometimes, in order to appear fierce, I will deliberately let my eyes wander a little, which looks harmless and distant.
Therefore, the fact that quiet girls are difficult to approach is actually a manifestation of their self-protection. She is actually quite enthusiastic at heart, just to see if you can get close to her heart.
2. How to approach a quiet girl
If you want to approach a quiet girl, you must take the initiative Some, but not too revealing of purpose. Then slowly treat her well and let her see you. Even if a quiet girl doesn't like you immediately, she will be very grateful for your presence. This is an opportunity for you to get close to her.
And there are two types of quiet girls. One is a girl who is inherently reserved and likes to be quiet in front of everyone; the second type is a girl who is ever-changing, who can be very active when she is lively, and can be very active when she is dull. You can feel calm.
You need to get to know her first, hang out with her, and participate in activities together. Don't rashly reveal how much you love her.
When you are chatting with her, you should mainly be the narrator and talk about topics that interest her. If you talk about yourself, her eyes will light up and you can share your interesting stories with those of your childhood. Tell her embarrassing things.
If you chat on WeChat or QQ, if she is interested in you, you can feel that she wants to know you during the conversation. If she doesn't like your talk of cheating, then stop chatting frequently.
Most of the quiet girls are very fresh. You can tell her some fresh jokes, such as the little bear who cut his nails and became a smart boy, and the man who bought a skateboard.
Boys should be more self-centered. You can give appropriate attention to a quiet girl and your interest in her, but don't act too hastily. Make yourself excellent and temperamentalIf you have a polite and stylish connotation, she will naturally like you. Whether it can turn into love depends on fate!
