In the process of chasing a girl, some people may think about a lot of things. After all, being careful is a good thing. It is not a bad thing to be considerate when chasing a girl. For example, during the holidays, should you give a girl a gift to her parents? Where are the gifts?

1 Your relationship with her parents

When chasing a girl, should you give her parents something? Giving gifts actually depends to a large extent on your relationship with her parents. For example, if you have just chased a girl and you have never met her parents, and your relationship with the girl is not yet confirmed, it would be inappropriate to give gifts in this situation. .

After you have established a relationship with a girl, you can now consider establishing a good relationship with the girl’s parents. However, it is better not to give gifts too abruptly. Give them when you are familiar with them. Generally speaking, they are easier to accept. .

For example, when you meet the girl’s parents, when you go to the girl’s home, and later during the holidays, you can consider giving gifts to the girl’s parents.

2 Depends on what holiday it is.

Giving gifts also pays attention to festivals. You can’t give them on Children’s Day, right? You can’t give them on Women’s Day. Should I give it away? I can’t give it away during Qingming Festival...

Try to choose some festivals that are festive and reunion--Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, New Year's Day, Spring Festival and other festivals.

Since you are giving a gift to a girl’s parents, you should cater to the personality of her parents. Do your parents like to save face or like to be frugal? If you want to save face, you have to buy some gifts that can match your face. For example, some health products for middle-aged and elderly people. If her parents like frugal and pragmatic men, then you can just buy some gifts that are not expensive but can show your sincerity. ,

In addition, you can also choose holiday gifts based on the personality and hobbies of the girl’s parents.

3 Prioritize

Chasing girls is about establishing a relationship with girls, not chasing them. Parents of girls should distinguish their priorities, first pursue the girl, and then establish a good relationship with the girl's parents. This is the general order.

When you first start chasing a girl, you usually don’t need to give gifts to the girl’s parents. At this time, your relationship with the girl has not yet been determined, and giving gifts will only make both of you feel embarrassed.

During this period, your main goal is to establish a romantic relationship with a girl. You should adjust your focus to how to attract girls and how to get along with girls, rather than whether you should give her parents gifts during the holidays.