What to say to a girl when you meet for the first time. Boys must learn it
1. Say hello
The first step when meeting a girl for the first time is of course to say hello. You can say a simple "hello," or a more polite "hello." If the other person has already introduced you by name, you can also call the other person by name directly.
In addition, you can also add some greetings according to the occasion and situation, such as "The weather is nice today", "You look beautiful today" and so on. But be careful not to be too proactive or too enthusiastic, lest you leave a bad impression.
2. Self-introduction
After saying hello, you can introduce yourself. First, state your name and briefly introduce your occupation, school, age and other basic information. At the same time, you can also mention some of your interests, hobbies, specialties or personality traits appropriately so that the other party can better understand you.
But be careful not to brag too much or appear too arrogant, otherwise you will come across as insincere or immodest.
3. Greet the other person
After introducing yourself, you can greet the other person appropriately. For example, "How was your day?", "Are you busy at work recently?" and so on. This allows the other person to feel your care and enthusiasm, and also helps to bring them closer together.
But be careful not to ask too personal or sensitive questions to avoid causing discomfort or embarrassment to others.
4. Chat about common topics
If you have said hello, introduced yourself and greeted the other party, you can start chatting next. You can start with some common topics, such as your city, favorite movies, music, sports, etc. By chatting about common topics, we can enhance mutual understanding and communication.
But be careful not to talk about overly sensitive or controversial topics, such as politics, religion, racial discrimination, etc. Also be careful not to take up too much time or talk too much, so as not to come across as nagging or annoying.
5. End the communication
Before the chat ends, you can appropriately summarize the content of the communication and express your gratitude. For example, "Nice to meet you", "Thank you for chatting with me", etc. You can also leave your contact information so that we can communicate again in the future.
But be careful not to appear too eager or force the other person to leave their contact information, so as not to leave an impression of discomfort or excessive pressure.
In fact, there are not many skills to talk about when you meet a girl for the first time. The key is to be sincere, natural and polite. As long as you do these basic points, you can leave a good impression and establish a good communication relationship.
