When chatting with a girl, the first sentence is very important. A bad start may make it difficult for her to interest in chatting, but a good start may directly make the girl reply in seconds. So, the first sentence when chatting with a girl What should I say?
What is the first thing to say when chatting with a girl?
1. Use curiosity
Everyone is full of curiosity about unknown things, girls It's no exception. You can make appropriate use of girls' curiosity to make opening remarks. For example
Boy: I believe that all encounters are reunions after a long absence. Girl: ..... Boy: Of course I am not talking about us, we may be enemies. Girl: Why? Boy: Just look at it in the vast sea of ??people. It's your turn, you must have owed me a lot of money in your last life
Chatting with a girl for the first time is not a time for you to express your sincerity, but to stimulate the girl's desire to continue chatting with you. When a girl expresses silence or responds insipidly, you need to stimulate the girl's emotions appropriately to make the girl interested in what you say, so that the girl can interact more with you in the chat and build a sense of familiarity.
2. Use the information displayed by girls
Before chatting with girls, we will check the dynamics of girls’ WeChat Moments. We can like and comment on girls’ dynamics to stimulate each other. Interaction, of course, for the first chat, it is better to choose polite praise to judge the girl’s interests and value orientation. For example
Boy: You want to pay me money Girl: Why? Boy: I was shocked by your photo, seriously injured and need treatment
3. Use what you have learned in life
When chatting with girls, if you just praise them, it will look cliché and easily reveal too much neediness, so you can also use some life experience Information and interesting things to start the chat. For example:
The food in the nearby drink shop is really terrible (send it to her with a photo of the drink). I met a puppy today and followed me to the door of the company (send it to her with a photo of the drink) Send her a photo of a puppy following you) You said, why is the sky blue? If you start chatting with a girl for the first time by just saying hello, the topic will easily end, so a different opening will make girls willing to follow You can keep chatting, and at the same time, you can continue to create topics to chat with girls according to the situation to avoid cold spots.
4. Narcissistic opening
I still often use this trick myself. To be honest, the effect is quite good, but you are thick-skinned. Because of this narcissistic opening, it is easy to be criticized by girls. If you can't accept the criticism from girls, don't use this trick. The advantage of using this trick is that it can establish your high-value image in front of girls, and it can alsoMake fun of each other with girls. In the fun, girls will think that you are an interesting person. Chatting will no longer be awkward or lifeless.
5. Open with praise
People like to hear nice words, nice words will make people feel happy , which will bring pleasure to the listener. So start by praising girls, and girls will naturally be willing to continue chatting with you. So how to use Le? The method is actually very simple. You can extract topics from a girl’s circle of friends that you think she deserves to be praised for, such as girls who love reading, dress well, look beautiful, etc. This requires you to have an eye for discovering beauty, so that you can find more of the other person's advantages. For example, if a girl’s photo is beautiful, you can say this. I saw your photos in your circle of friends. The photos you took are so elegant. With such an opening, the girl will definitely not be disgusted with you, and will definitely be willing to have an in-depth chat with you.
