When chasing girls, we must first correct our mentality. Love itself is very emotional. When pursuing someone, there is a high probability that we will not be able to be together! So give it a try boldly, and you will not suffer any loss anyway! You can also accumulate experience.

You must understand that there are no scumbags in the world. It’s just that when there are more people who know how to sum up the experience of failure, there will be scumbags. We are not scumbags. But we can't fall stupidly in one place every time. It is necessary to sum up experience and avoid encountering this pit next time. It's not that if you like someone, you have to rush all over the place. The more fierce you chase, the more miserable your death may be!

Let me share with you some chatting methods to chase girls. If you want to chase the girl you like, you have to talk like this.

1. Good time management

Sometimes when you chat with a girl and you don’t reply, it doesn’t mean that she If I’m not interested in you, it’s really possible that your timing is wrong!

Many boys always like to chat with each other on weekends or when they are off work, thinking that during this time the other party will be more attractive. convenient.

In fact, not necessarily. During rush hours after get off work, girls may be squeezing the subway and bus, leaving their mobile phones in their bags and not even bothering to look at them. There is a high probability that many people are more suitable to chat when they are at work.

Normal office workers actually don’t have very full working hours. When they are idle in the company, there are not many things to interfere with them. You can't blatantly watch romantic dramas. There are no kittens or puppies suddenly coming to cause trouble, and there is no need to go to the toilet. Therefore, if you find the other party to chat at this time, it will be relatively easier to chat from a psychological point of view.

Of course, this is not absolute, because some people are indeed very busy at work. Therefore, try to find out as much as possible about the other person’s work, life, and study patterns.

The period before going to bed is actually more suitable. During this time, girls have finished their chores and are in a calmer mood. It is more suitable for chatting.

In short, try to chat when the other party has time, a lot of time, and there is nothing messy to distract her attention during this time.

2. Study more

Some boys may often chat with the opposite sex they like. I racked my brains and couldn't think of a topic. I finally came up with one, but after only saying a few words, I didn’t know what to say next.

Then, they often come to us in distress and ask: What topics can we talk about when pursuing?

According to my observation, boys who ask such questions often have very little knowledge reserves and Life experience is very limited.

Talking about movies? I haven’t seen many movies;

Talking about travel? Haven’t been to a few places;

Talking about literature? Haven’t read many books;

Talking about skin care? I usually just wipe water;

Talking about food ?I eat what my mother does;

Talk about what interesting things happened recently? Eat, sleep, and spray pesticides.

Let’s talk about what we saw on the way to get off work? We slept all the way...

Boys, if you want to have something to say, you must first have something in your head. If you want to think in your head, There are things in it, you have to increase your life experience as much as possible! Even if you can't increase your life experience, then why don't you browse my program headquarters more? There are still a lot of chat topics on this. Spend less time on Douyin, play less games, and read more questions and answers. Over time, you will be able to talk a few words about anything.

3. Confident men are the most attractive

All success comes from a dream and nothing. Unfounded self-confidence. If you want to pursue her, you must believe that you are worthy of her. You are not asking her to give you a chance, but you are giving her a chance.

What you think is a goddess is actually just like you, an ordinary person who also has to eat, sleep, and go to work to make money.

Since she is just an ordinary person, then why are you so nervous? Why do you feel so inferior in front of her?

If you are very different, you are not even in the same circle. , it is also difficult to have intersection in real life.

If you treat her like a god when you come up, and then you are obedient and careful, and you have to think about every greeting, and you are struggling for a long time between hello, hello, morning, and what are you, then you are such a goddamn person. How can we talk... So, be more confident, don't think about what comes to mind, don't hesitate, just type it and send it directly. At worst, you'll receive a red exclamation mark!