When we chat with girls, sometimes we encounter situations where we can’t find a topic. At this time, what should we do? This article will provide you with some methods to help you avoid embarrassment when chatting with girls.

1. Open-ended questions

If you find yourself reaching a dead end in a conversation with a girl, try asking some open-ended questions. These questions require responses with more words and answers, which are conducive to a deeper understanding of the other party. For example, "Have you seen any good movies recently?", "What do you think of traveling to Japan?" and so on.

2. Talking about interests

When chatting with girls, focusing on topics of interest is an excellent way out . You can ask her to talk about things she is interested in, such as reading, music, travel, sports, etc., or you can simply talk about your interests, such as the type of movies you like, what skills you want to learn recently, etc. In this way, not only will you avoid the embarrassment of not being able to find a topic, but it will also allow you to have more common topics.

3. Explore the other person’s daily life

When you don’t know what to talk about, the best way is to understand the other person’s daily life. Ask her about her daily work, daily chores, her favorite food, and what kind of restaurants she likes to eat at. These topics will make her feel that you care about her, and you can also explore new topics, because different people have different interests and hobbies. .

4. Other people’s stories

Telling other people’s stories is a chatting skill. If you hear something interesting or strange, share it with her. For example, "I heard that many people participated in a group running race and accidentally ran into the river." Such a story can not only make the girl happy, but also allow you to have interesting exchanges and jump out of embarrassing topics. .

5. Use your eyes to convey information

When chatting, you can also use your eyes or body language to convey information to let girls understand what you mean. For example, when you don't know what to talk about, you can signal her with your eyes or make some funny gestures to make her feel closer to you.

Summary

Chatting with girls is a science, and many times we need to use some skills to avoid embarrassment. The above five methods are commonly used techniques in chatting. In addition, it is important to seize the opportunity and pay attention to the other party's emotions, so that chatting with girls will be more enjoyable.