In modern society, flirting with girls has become one of the necessary skills for boys. However, how to open a conversation and choose a chat topic are headaches for many boys. This article will provide you with some practical suggestions from these two aspects.
1. Opening statement
The opening statement is the first step in starting a conversation with a girl. It needs to be simple, natural and interesting. The following openings are for reference:
1.1 Greeting openings
"Hello, my name is XXX "Nice to meet you." This is the most common greeting opening line. It is simple and clear and will not make girls feel abrupt. However, if you just say this and end it, it may seem a bit boring. Therefore, after greetings, you can add some interactive topics.
1.2 Complimentary opening remarks
"You are so beautiful/temperamental/very tasteful..." Complimentary opening remarks can make girls feel praised and respected, but be careful not to overdo it. Nasty or hypocritical. At the same time, praise should not just stay on the surface. It is best to dig deeper into the girl's characteristics and make her feel that you truly understand her.
1.3 Common topic opening statement
If you already know some information about the girl, such as her hobbies, career, etc., you can use this information to start a conversation. For example: "I heard that you like traveling very much. Where have you been recently?" This will not only arouse the girl's interest, but also make the conversation more in-depth.
2. Chat topics
Choosing appropriate chat topics can make the conversation more enjoyable and interesting. The following chat topics are for reference:
2.1 Hobbies
Hobbies are one of the important contents of people's communication because they involve personal emotions and values. In the chat, you can ask girls about their hobbies and express their opinions and attitudes towards these hobbies. At the same time, you can also share your interests and hobbies so that girls can get to know you better.
2.2 Travel experience
Travel is a very popular topic because it can make people feel Different cultures and landscapes. In the chat, you can ask girls about their favorite travel destinations, their most unforgettable travel experiences, etc., and you can also share your own travel experiences.
2.3 Movie Music
Movies and music are indispensable forms of entertainment in people’s daily lives. In the chat, you can ask girls about their favorite movies or music types, and express their opinions and attitudes towards these works. At the same time, you can also share the movies you have recently watched or the music you have listened to.
2.4 Work and study
Work and studyIt is a problem that people must face in their daily lives. In the chat, you can ask girls about their work or study status, and express your views and attitudes on these issues. At the same time, you can also share work or study problems you have encountered recently.
When choosing chat topics, you should pay attention to respecting girls’ interests and personal privacy, and at the same time show your charm and depth.
The above are the suggestions for opening remarks and chat topics provided by this article. I hope it can help everyone and make you more comfortable on the road to flirting with girls.