Dating is a traditional way of making friends. It is very important for boys to chat with girls without being silent when they are on a blind date. Here are 6 tips to help you cope with blind date chatting easily.
1. Get to know the other person first
Before going on a blind date with a girl, first get to know the other person’s basic information, such as hobbies, occupation, family background, etc. This will allow you to prepare your topic more specifically and avoid awkward silences.
Of course, during the chat, you should also pay attention to what the other party says and understand her thoughts and feelings, so that you can better Lead the topic.
2. Mainly open-ended questions
When chatting with girls, try to use open-ended questions to give the other party more room to answer. For example, questions like "Which city do you like best?" can elicit the other person's travel experience, cultural background, etc.
Closed-ended questions tend to lead to a single answer. Questions such as "What do you like to eat?" can only get a simple answer.
3. Don’t talk about sensitive topics
When dating a girl, you should avoid talking about sensitive topics, such as politics, religion, wealth, etc. These topics can easily cause controversy and unnecessary conflicts, affecting the atmosphere of the chat.
If the other party raises such a topic, you can answer tactfully or change the topic, and do not express your opinions too fiercely.
4. Use humor to resolve embarrassment
When dating a girl, some embarrassing scenes will inevitably occur. At this time, you can use humor to resolve the awkwardness and make the other person relax.
But be careful about the level of humor and don't offend the other person or take the joke too far.
5. Don’t talk about yourself all the time
When chatting with girls, don’t talk about yourself all the time. Give the other party enough opportunity to speak. Also be careful not to over exaggerate your strengths or brag about your achievements.
Appropriately sharing your own experiences and ideas can increase mutual understanding, but you must also pay attention to the right balance.
6. Be polite and respectful
When dating a girl, be polite and respectful. Don't use vulgar language or behave inappropriately, which may make the other person feel uncomfortable.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and deeds to leave a good impression on the other party.
The above are 6 tips on dating and chatting with girls. I hope it can help you easily cope with dating and chatting and find your significant other.