When some boys are chatting with girls, they always encounter situations where girls tend to ignore you. As the saying goes, "If you don't do what you want, you have to ask for it." If girls ignore you, it is actually because there is something wrong with your way of chatting. !
You have been chatting with girls in the most annoying way of chatting, which is obviously asking for trouble. It is better for girls not to directly express their disgust, let alone talk to you. When chatting with girls, you must avoid the following chat methods.
1. Can’t hold back a sentence for a long time
Some boys talk profusely in front of their gay friends. In front of girls, he always can't hold back a word for a long time. In the final analysis, he is too timid. In theory, he does one thing, but in practice, he looks like an imbecile, a typical boring male type.
For these boys who can’t hold back a sentence for a long time, girls usually hate chatting with him. Not only is the atmosphere of the chat very awkward, but the content of the chat is also very empty. In the words of Northeastern people, “ A big man is more coquettish than a little girl."
2. Treat girls as airmen
Some boys don’t know how to chat at all, let alone chat with girls, because their way of chatting is to treat girls as airmen and only care about Talking to himself, talking to himself, he didn't notice whether the girl was interested in his topic at all.
This kind of boy is obviously a chauvinist with a certain lack of emotional intelligence. He talks about whatever comes to his mind and does not care whether the girl is interested in listening, but only cares about whether he is interested in talking.
Chatting is the cooperation of two people. If your topic cannot arouse the interest and curiosity of girls, then you are completely treating girls as airmen. On the chat software, although you cannot see the girls’ expressions, But in fact, she already had a look on her face.
3. Robot Q&A
Some boys only try to experiment with girls when chatting with them. Asking questions endlessly. After the questions were asked, the conversation was over. It didn't look like two people chatting about each other, but like a robot's question and answer.
Will you fall in love with me?
How old are you?
What do you do at home?
What are your measurements?< /p>
Girls hate this uninteresting way of chatting, because in the eyes of girls, this kind of conversation is not chatting, but a robot question-and-answer survey.
4. Put others down to elevate yourself
Girls like to show off, and some boys are no exception. Maybe this is a sense of superiority? Some boys often like to show their superiority in front of girls when chatting with girls.High value, not only likes to show off, but also often uses the method of belittling others to improve himself.
This kind of behavior will not be appreciated by others no matter what the occasion, let alone in the eyes of girls. It will only make girls hate your hypocritical and arrogant character.
