Straight men are often the target of complaints from girls. What straight men think, straight men deserve to be single, straight men have cancer, straight men don’t understand girls’ hearts... This makes straight men themselves want to change and want to know how. Only then can you be popular with girls. Let me share with you how straight men can change their emotional intelligence? Make girls like you.
1. Self-understanding
If a straight man wants to change his emotional intelligence, he must first have a correct self-understanding. He needs to realize that his low emotional intelligence is a cancer problem for straight men. . Otherwise, he would not think that there is something wrong with him. The problem is with those who think that he is straight and has cancer. Many boys get angry when called a straight boy by a girl, thinking that the girl is slandering them. In fact, it is not difficult to admit their mistakes. What is difficult is not knowing enough about themselves.
If boys realize that they are straight, it will be easier. One is to read more books on emotional intelligence, and the other is to communicate more with people, and then discover your own way of speaking, observe more how people with high emotional intelligence around you speak and do things, and learn slowly. Think through what you want to say in your head before speaking.
2. Speak tactfully
If a straight man can still show the most sincere concern when talking to the girl he likes, he should speak tactfully and imply meaning, and don’t be too straightforward. Speak up and give the other person some leeway. Maybe you can gradually become more eloquent and become the so-called "high emotional intelligence."
Like "drink more hot drinks" "Water" should be said less. Maybe you really mean it, but it sounds a bit perfunctory to girls. It is better to replace drinking more hot water with "Would you like me to come over now and help you take a look?" ". When chatting, you should also avoid asking questions all the time, let girls talk more, and if you can't speak, just echo more, and then put forward your own opinions at the right time.
3. Pay more attention to your words and deeds h2>
How to become highly emotionally intelligent? You can observe the words, deeds, and behaviors of those people who have many friends and are very popular in daily life. You can learn more about them yourself, and then you can also ask more books. If your friends don’t like your behavior when talking to you, just change it.
Of course, in fact. Some so-called "straight men" don't have low emotional intelligence, they just don't know how to chat with girls. For example, some boys are not very good at chatting with girls because they have less contact, while some boys are a bit older. They are chauvinistic, but they don’t have bad intentions towards girls. Moreover, many boys in life are straight towards girls, but their emotional intelligence is very high in daily social interactions. This is just a typical lack of experience and they don’t know how to interact with girls. There are differences in thinking between chatting and chatting with boys. I want to improve my emotional intelligence.Just observe more and say less useless words. As for those who are straight or not, just follow your heart.
