Many boys think they are in good condition, but they just can’t find a girlfriend. They lament the decline of the world and lament the prevalence of scumbag men. They say that girls nowadays like handsome and rich guys. However, it is worth pondering that many boys who are neither handsome nor rich can still seduce girls, so if you can't find a girlfriend, you should also look for your own reasons.
The common problem of this kind of boys:
While shouting indecent words, his whole body exudes masculinity, He criticized the girls for being too superficial.
While living with a basic salary, I don’t know anything and don’t know how to study. I complain all the time that today’s girls are money diggers.
While secretly falling in love with so and so, but unwilling to take action, all that is left is a mouth bubbling: Good cabbage has been given to the pig!
To be honest, how can a girl look like this? With you? Is it really like the sentence in "Everything Is Good", "Because you are poor, because you are old, because you don't take a shower?" Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups, not because girls are too demanding, but because many single men themselves Insufficient conditions.
Think carefully about your own shortcomings and think carefully about whether these shortcomings are the reason why you can't find a girlfriend. If you can't find a girlfriend, you have to work hard instead of just complaining, which will only make girls think you are naive. This complaining and decadent mentality urgently needs to be corrected. What should I do if I can't find a girlfriend? Try to do the following three things!
First: Don’t be arrogant. Many boys always have an inexplicable sense of superiority. Looking at this girl, they feel that they are not good enough, and looking at that girl, they feel that they are not worthy of him. Naturally, they often give up the opportunity to have a girlfriend.
Second: Learn to appreciate. Appreciate the things around you, appreciate the good in others, and appreciate the beauty of the world. Many boys are now critics, criticizing the injustice of society and the tricks of fate...Only those who know how to appreciate will be broad-minded and diligent in learning. At the same time, you will be appreciated and paid attention to by others. The more outstanding people are, the better they will be. Will appreciate it.
Third: Sincere respect. When people achieve certain achievements, they will more or less despise certain groups of people. Although you don't say it, your look and behavior have already released this signal. When you respect others, you will be valued, and the same goes for finding a girlfriend.
