Although everyone sneers at the mention of bad men, thinking that bad men are unreliable and not a good match. But it is undeniable that in real life, many bad men do not lack girlfriends. On the contrary, honest and serious men are always single and have no choice but to find a girlfriend. So why do women like bad men? What’s redeemable about bad men? With this doubt, I asked around the women around me, and the answers I got were really heartbreaking:
"Bad man Although he is careless, he understands me. I just frown and he knows why I am unhappy, and he can also come up with particularly effective ways to coax me and restore my energy immediately. ”
"It's okay for a man to be bad. Who doesn't have shortcomings? The main thing is that he is so good at understanding my emotions and thoughts. I can't compare with an honest man. Chatting with an honest man is like a duck. He will never understand what I mean. My heart is tired."
"It's fun to find a bad man. He's sweet and flirty, and there are always little surprises. Every day is like Valentine's Day."
"Yes. Those who are bad men can often be brought out. They have good looks, good clothes, high emotional intelligence, and generally have a good background. It’s so respectable to show off such a boyfriend. ”
You see, bad men actually have a lot of redeeming qualities. They are truly capable men. So what about you as an honest man? What advantages do you have that you can bring to the table? Listen to me, if a girl asks you this question again in the future, you must answer this way:
If you are good-looking, you will say you have a good body and good looks. If you have savings, you will say you have strong earning power. If you are in the system, you will say you have a high level of establishment. When doing business, they say they have a wide network of connections, and when they are able to support their elders, they say their parents have a strong background. There is really nothing more to say, so they insist on saying: "I am very honest."
Don’t listen to girls’ nonsense, find an honest man to marry, I’m just kidding you. Indeed, 80% of girls would describe their ideal boyfriend as " considerate, enthusiastic, good-tempered, hard-working, tolerant, dedicated, not too good at flirting with girls..." It seems that honest men win!
But in fact, no one can resist the temptation of happy fat house water + fried chicken, garbage is so addictive . You must be depressed again and sigh, "Honest and humble men are really destined to live alone!" Wake up! A truly honest man will never fail to find a wife. Those who cannot find a wife are perpetual bachelors in the sheep's clothing of "honest men".
Of course, this does not mean that honest men are not good. In fact, to get married, you need an honest man. Otherwise, why would many women find an honest man and marry after their feelings are hurt? It can only be said that honest men need to learn a lot from bad men. Be an honest man who is popular with women, and you will find that getting out of singlehood is not as difficult as you think.