Many boys have encountered it. At first, a girl is willing to chat with you. When you feel that the girl is also interested in the boy, you find that the girl suddenly becomes cold. This is the cold period after the hot chat with the girl. Maybe the girl's attitude towards you is slowly changing. If it doesn't change in time, there may be no hope for you. So how do boys break the cold period after meeting a girl and having a hot chat?
1. Boys should be more proactive when girls are cold.
The reason why girls go from hot chat to being cold to you may be because there is no topic and you know that you have nothing to say. Finding topics is very tiring. Then, it may be that something happened, it may be that you said something wrong or did something wrong, and the girl felt that there was no need to understand, so she became cold.
Of course, the good thing is that she is a little interested in you, so she is quite enthusiastic at first, but later she may come to her senses and feel that she cannot be so obvious and reserved, so she becomes cold. Therefore, if a boy has some thoughts about a girl, you can take the initiative during the cold period after a hot chat with a girl, chat, hang out, and see her reaction and attitude. If you have no idea, then leave it alone, because girls, Capricious.
2. Guide girls to become enthusiastic about you
Some girls’ psychology is incomprehensible to boys. She may chat with you enthusiastically sometimes, but at other times she suddenly becomes aloof and can't help but become silent for no apparent reason. If you encounter a cold period with a girl after a hot chat, there is nothing you can do. Generally, if this happens to girls, as long as someone can guide you, the girl will be full of energy towards you instead of being silent. Because in fact, girls sometimes know that they talk too much, and then they are afraid of being disliked, so they silence themselves, calm themselves down, and reflect on their excessive positivity.
Therefore, after discovering that a girl has become cold, a boy can try to bring out topics that she likes, and then arouse her interest. Anyway, he must make her have a feeling that "there is no need to pretend in front of this guy." "My own nature, because he won't be too prejudiced against me" feeling, and then regain his enthusiasm for you.
Finally, if a girl takes the initiative to chat with you every day and say good morning and good night, it means that she has a crush on you. I am willing to chat with you every day, but a girl takes the initiative every day. If you take the initiative for too long, you will get tired. The girl may go from hot chat to cold. She may think that if you also like her, you will take the initiative to chat with her. She thinks that if you like her, you will take the initiative to chat with her, or even confess your feelings to her. Maybe after a long time, she feels that her enthusiasm has not been responded to, and feels that it is useless to persist for so long. She wants to make herself indifferent to you and make herself give up.
