Under normal circumstances, those boys who have always been single and cannot catch up with girls are introverted and homely boys. So if this kind of boys want to be single, how should they learn to chase girls?
The first thing to do is to change Character begins. After all, the first step to chasing a girl is to chat. If you are unable to find topics for effective communication or even don’t know what to talk about due to personality reasons when chatting with a girl, then it will be difficult for your relationship to further improve. So what should we do specifically?
In anything you do, you must learn to use your strengths and avoid weaknesses. If introversion and being a homebody are your shortcomings, then you should avoid them. For example, if you don't know how to chat when dating a girl, then you can do things that don't require chatting, such as watching movies, going to the amusement park, playing video games, etc.
But what is the most important thing?
The most important thing is to show your strengths and show your strength. Advantages, your advantageous resources, your core competitiveness!
If you are very handsome, even if you don’t say anything, many girls will pounce on you, but unfortunately, most boys are not good-looking. Very ordinary!
But even if you look very ordinary, as long as you dress yourself up seriously, participate in more social activities, meet more friends, and attend more parties, there are still many ways to meet girls. If you recognize enough girls, 1-2 will naturally like you blindly. Only quantitative changes can lead to qualitative changes, so the first thing to do is to accumulate enough quantity. This is very important!
Quantity If you have enough, you have the right to choose. Your overall strength determines how many choices you have. What is overall strength?
Appearance is a type of strength, as well as status, personality and connections. For example, if you say you like classical music, if you can play the violin and you show it at the activities organized by the school, maybe many people will like you. For example, if you say you are the president of the student union, there will naturally be girls. Favoring you, beauties have loved heroes since ancient times. You can be handsome, talented, and humorous. In short, you need to have one thing that makes you stand out. Otherwise, who would fall in love with a good-for-nothing person?< /p>
If an introverted boy wants to fall in love, the best way is not to actively pursue girls, but to build attraction to girls and let girls chase you. Although this is difficult, it is the best option. Because inexperienced boys are prone to failure when pursuing girls, causing their self-confidence to be frustrated, and they even dare not pursue girls.
