When chasing a girl, if she says that she is not good enough for you, in addition to testing you, it is very likely that she will give you an excuse to reject you. If you want to understand her true thoughts, you need to judge based on the stage of the relationship between the two parties.
1. The girl you just met says she is not good enough for you
If you have just met a girl not long ago , the other person says that she is not good enough for you, that may be a test for you. If you follow her wishes at this time and cater to her and conscientiously comfort her, you will fall into the pit she dug and make the girl feel that you have been If you eat it, you will immediately lose interest in you.
Then how to deal with it correctly?
"Then don't give up on yourself. In fact, it's pretty good if you take care of yourself" (following her slight teasing)
< p> “Why do you suddenly say this and now you are afraid that I will look down on you? (bad smile)” (pretend to be narcissistic)“Why are we talking about such a serious topic as if we were on a blind date just after we met? Relax"
2. During the ambiguous stage, the girl says she is not worthy of you
If the relationship with the girl has already Entering the ambiguous stage, the girl who says she is not good enough for you is probably testing your attitude to see if you are sincere and sincere enough to her. The best thing to do at this point is to express your true feelings. Real things can infect people and make girls trust them enough.
For example:
"How could I not have thought about the future before I met you?"
"If you are not worthy If you fall in love with me, I will be single for the rest of my life. We are simply a perfect match”
3. After confessing, the girl said she is worthy of you
If after confessing your love to a girl, she says that she is not good enough for you, she is basically rejecting you. She is saying this just to make it easier for you to step down. In fact, it's not so much that she doesn't deserve you, but that she thinks you don't deserve her.
Therefore, when encountering this kind of situation, don’t say stupid things like “you deserve it”, which will make you appear to have very low emotional intelligence. The correct approach is to stop attacking and retreat first to prevent blocking future opportunities.
For example:
"Don't put too much pressure on me. Whether I like you or not is my own business. Just follow your heart."
"Easy easy, I like you, but I didn't say that I won't marry you unless you are, let alone pester you. Don't belittle yourself and think about it in the long run."
"Okay, I will improve myself well, and you don't give up on yourself." (ground retreat)
