As a boy, you may think that machismo is nothing and feel that you can understand it. However, as girls, they definitely don’t want their boyfriends or future husbands to be chauvinistic, so they meet men who are chauvinistic. I usually take a detour. So is there any sign of machismo in you? You must know that girls hate machismo. If you have machismo, you'd better change it appropriately.
Character expressions of male chauvinism in love
1. Everything is self-centered
Male chauvinistic boys like to be self-centered in everything and refuse to listen to girls Even if the girl's opinions are reasonable, he refuses to accept them. He hopes that the girls will adopt his opinions or suggestions so that he can regain his sense. If the girl doesn't accept it, he may become cold-hearted or angry, making it difficult for the girl to communicate.
2. Like to be self-righteous
If a boy is chauvinistic, he likes to use what he thinks is the best You don't want to get along with others in a good way, and they like to give instructions on girls' lives under the guise of being good for you. For example, if girls go to bed late to watch dramas, he has been persuading them to go to bed early and get up early; if girls lose weight, he will say that they are like iron rice or steel. Although he has good intentions, he is disliked by others.
3. Have a strong possessive desire
Machinist boys have a strong possessive desire. They hope that their girlfriends will only have contact with themselves and the opposite sex, and they cannot have friends of the opposite sex. When you go out to eat, you must make a video call to see if there are any other boys around. I hope everything can be in my own hands. No matter big or small, you must have a clear understanding of everything, have a strong sense of territory, and demonstrate status through possession.
4. Satisfy your own vanity
Male chauvinistic boys like to show off in front of others intentionally or unintentionally Having a higher self-esteem, subconsciously suppressing the people closest to you, having a stubborn sense of superiority about yourself, belittling and hurting the self-esteem of others, and improving your self-confidence while slandering others.
5. You have to make the decision for yourself in everything
Machinist boys like to have the power to make decisions on big and small matters, and they have to make the decision for themselves in everything. Sometimes when a girl asks for his opinion, he makes a decision directly without caring about the girl's needs. This is actually a bit disrespectful of other people's feelings and other people's rights.
6. Like to objectify women
Machinist boys will not respect girls and like to objectify women. I feel that girls are born as accessories to men, and subconsciously believe that women’s task is to wash, cook and take care of children, which has no social value. So he often directly ignores the needs of girls and feels that heThere’s nothing wrong with making decisions for the other person.
7. Serious double standards
It is excusable for oneself to do the same thing, but unforgivable for others to do it. He is very upright when criticizing others, but he is very tolerant to himself.