Question: I met a girl on a blind date in March this year. She is a good-looking girl, so I fell in love with her at first sight (of course, my appearance is not bad either, 5-6 points). At first she was extremely inactive. I took the initiative for three days, and then she didn't reply to my questions for three days. I thought she was not interested in me, but later I learned that she was very busy and had several vxes.

, I often go for walks or runs. She asked me to go play in June and July. I feel more and more like a couple. She feeds me food, exchanges drinks with her, and we even kiss. There are so many obvious things. As a couple, I thought we were in a relationship.

But two days ago I asked her what our relationship is now, and she said friends. I thought to myself, my God, I am It’s not that she was fooled. She said that I was superficial when I said I liked her when I confessed my love for the first time. It would only matter when I said what I liked about her. I just felt that there is a reason to like someone. It is just a feeling and personality. It’s so hard to say that she looks so superficial. I even wonder if she likes me. If she doesn’t like me, why would she keep in contact with me for more than four months? It's too difficult.

Is kissing on a blind date considered a relationship?

Answer: If you ask me whether kissing on a blind date is considered a relationship, I will definitely answer that it is. Because kissing is an intimate act that can only be done between lovers, but the girl you are contacting on a blind date says that you are just friends. To be honest, it is really hard to accept.

I think you can ask her: You and your other friends of the opposite sex also feed each other, exchange drinks, and even Kiss? Maybe in her mind, being with the opposite sex can be so casual? After all, you said she is good-looking, and she should be a more positive girl when she asks you to go for a walk. Why does she need a blind date to get out of singleness? Based on her condition, there shouldn't be anyone chasing her. Maybe the boys around her can't catch her eye.

Moreover, she is very busy and has several WeChat accounts. Why should she be so secretive? It looks a bit like playing hard to get. You can just abstract what you like about her, say that she gives you a wonderful feeling, positive energy, strong and independent, warm and cute, and you feel very happy to be with her...

But I think even if she is Even if the relationship is clear with you, you may not be able to hold her. Because your situation is like a fish in her pond. Maybe she is still in contact with other boys when she is in contact with you. One day she meets a boy with better conditions than you, and you may be there at any time. Got kicked.