Many girls make it clear that they do not want boys younger than themselves to be their boyfriends when choosing a mate, and many boys have hit a brick wall. But relationships cannot be judged solely on age. If a girl who is chasing a girl says that I am too young, what should I do to make her accept me?

1. Analyze the reasons why girls don’t look for boys who are younger than me.

1. Some girls may have been hurt in the relationship between siblings before, because the other party was immature or irrational. , which made her feel repelled by boys younger than herself.

2. Some girls have never had a sibling relationship before, but because they themselves are not very mature, they want to find a boy who is older than them as their boyfriend. They feel that this way they feel more secure. .

3. Some girls are influenced by traditional concepts and think that when a boy falls in love, boys should be older and girls should be smaller. This is a better match. Moreover, they are very concerned about the opinions of others and feel that the relationship between siblings is not acceptable.

4. Girls have no feelings for you and just use your young age as an excuse to reject your pursuit.

2. What should I do if a girl chasing a girl says I am too young?

In fact, no matter what the girl says about you, What is the reason for your young age? What you need to do may be to change the girl's inherent impression of you and let her see your shining points, so that she may accept you. The specific method is as follows:

< p> Find her first and say to her sincerely: "It is true that I am young, and this is a fact that cannot be changed, but I want to ask you, you have been in love several times before, what about those boys who are older than you? Why did we break up after we were together? Or can you guarantee that you will end up with a boy who is older than you? I don't want to ridicule you, I just hope you won't rush to reject me because of your age. , give each other a chance, okay?"

Although these words may seem a bit harsh, they can actually touch a girl’s heart. Next, don't rush to ask her to give you an answer, let her think about it. And during this period. You can find ways to be nice to her and use practical actions to impress her (avoid any childish behavior that will make her shrink from you again). Your words and actions make her have the urge to give you a chance. As for whether she will accept you, it depends on your performance.

The reason why girls are unwilling to accept younger boys is actually out of a sense of security. On the one hand, she is older than you and may have to endure more; on the other hand, she will bear pressure from society and family; finally, she will worry that you are immature and will cause many conflicts in your future life. If a girl who is chasing a girl says that I am too young, the best way for you to convince her is to eliminate all of her worries, so that she has nothing to worry about.