A monthly income of 10,000 yuan is already a lot. Logically speaking, finding a girlfriend is easy, but why can’t some boys with a monthly income of 10,000 yuan still not find a girlfriend?
Why can’t I find a girlfriend even though I earn 10,000 yuan a month?
1. Mentality issues
After entering the company, everyone wants to be the best, but It is really difficult to survive in society, because if you are always abandoned by your boss because of some problems or poor behavior, you are destined to be eliminated by the company, especially when you work in the company and cooperate with colleagues. Often because these young people have mental problems and gradually drag down the team and cannot control the overall situation, the leader will prevent you from getting a better position in the workplace.
2. Unable to find the right position
However, in recent years, many young people have high academic qualifications and abilities. Strong and have stable jobs in state-owned enterprises, they begin to be self-righteous and always feel that they can find a satisfactory marriage partner. Therefore, they distract their energy for similar reasons and fail to carefully analyze each other's strengths and weaknesses, whether it is work or work. You will lose confidence in your life, and your efficiency will become lower and lower. This is actually harmful to everyone.
3. Eager to take advantage of opportunities
Over time, these young people have become more and more anxious in first-tier cities. It is precisely because of their anxious mentality that they have a negative influence in first-tier cities. Leaders have opinions about employees, and their families also have opinions about them. If these young people do not do well, it will also affect other people. In addition, these young people are also too eager for quick success or want to find some rich people to get married. However, it is indeed difficult to achieve certain achievements if you are eager to succeed or opportunistic, because if you are always impetuous, Then there will be very strict conditions when dealing with work or blind dates, and this will also bring you a lot of hidden dangers, which is very detrimental to your long-term development. You will be constantly rejected and eliminated. , you will have difficulty doing the present well in the workplace and in life.