Many people can't tell the difference between the cold period and the love period. Some lovers are not in love but are still in the cold stage. What is the difference between indifferent menstruation and falling out of love?
There is no definite timeline for the period of indifference between lovers. Some appear early, some appear late. They are affected by subjective and objective factors. The subjective factors during the lover's cold period are generally based on the person's own feelings. In short, when lovers fall in love for the first time, they want to understand each other, and then they will be full of passion as they continue to explore. However, when they get to know each other in depth, their interest will be greatly reduced. Objective factors are usually environmental factors, such as the pressure of living conditions, social comparison, etc.
Many people can't tell the difference between the cold phase in the middle of a relationship and the lack of love. Some lovers don't love each other, but they are still in the cold stage.
The period of indifference is actually very similar to the period of peace. What is ordinary is that life has no waves. The cold period means that neither party wants to take the initiative to talk to anyone, nor do they want to be the first person to take the initiative. However, both parties still love each other. If the marriage ends, neither party is willing to give up.
If you don’t love it, it’s very simple. If there is no love, both parties have no feelings, and this feeling is meaningless. Even if you are separated, they will no longer be obsessed with you. How to distinguish between cold period and no love?
1. Cold period: Although you don’t pay attention to image, it only gives you the most authentic look. You will still pay attention to what should be paid attention to outside. He clearly knows that he is half a human being.
2. Don’t love: Don’t love, don’t pay attention to your image no matter where you are, behave as if you don’t have a significant other, Just like being single. Even hooking up with other (her) people.
3. Contact information: Although I will not be as speechless as in the last relationship, I will still report basic things to the other party. For example, what am I busy with today, why I didn’t reply to you, or when I see the other party’s message, reply immediately and give a general explanation. I don’t want to talk to you just because I didn’t see it.
4. Performance: Cold performance: The performance is the same as usual, average, occasionally a little greasy.
5. Not loving: Showing indifference, indifference, or even alienation from the other person, and sometimes showing disgust towards the other person.
This is all about the difference between the cold period and falling out of love. If it becomes dull, you have to find a way to rekindle it and fall in love again. And if you don't love each other anymore, break up as soon as possible and don't waste the other person's energy and time.