When chasing girls on WeChat, if you don’t know how to upgrade the relationship and how to invite them, then no matter how speculative your chat is, you will inevitably enter a cold period as time goes by, and you will chat less and less. So when chatting with girls on WeChat has entered a cold period, what should we do to get through this period?
1. Grasp the core needs of girls
Everyone’s patience is limited. Most boys who enter a cold period with girls do so because the chat becomes boring during the WeChat chat. It shows high-value content, so it becomes a message that girls can reply or not, because if she replies, she will be able to guess what you are going to say next, and she will not want to chat with you.
If you want to get out of the cold period faster, you must first know the core needs of girls. Generally speaking, they need freshness, mystery, emotional comfort, a sense of security, satisfaction of vanity, and needs. Care and care.
More harmonious and more effective.
For example:
Girl: I think our work places are quite close...
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(This may be a hint that we have been apart for so long, why don’t we go out to have a meal and watch a movie together)
Girl: I think I have gained a little weight recently...
(This may be a hint to you, why don’t you compliment me on my beauty soon)
Girl: I often get off work recently, and every time I go home, the light is broken. It’s really scary
(The girl is complaining to you, you have to comfort her. It would be better if you could send the girl home every day)
2. Provide emotional value to girls
Girls are easily affected by emotions, especially when they are stimulated by external factors, such as a touching human text or when they see poor animals on the roadside, they will automatically bring it in Emotions and feeling melancholy, sad moods. When you chat with girls, if the topic and atmosphere are very dull, it will naturally not affect the girls and will not cause any emotional fluctuations. It is difficult for such a chat to leave a deep impression on girls.
Therefore, if you want to get out of the cold period quickly, you also need to "stimulate" girls appropriately, making them excited, excited, curious, and sad from time to time, and creating a "flirting" chat atmosphere. Let her emotions fluctuate greatly, like a roller coaster, with ups and downs, before she is willing to continue chatting with you.
For example:
Boys: I’ll give you ninety points. (pull)
Girls: What?
Boy: You are so smart and beautiful, can you not understand? (pull)
Girl: Haha, thank you for the compliment
Boy: But... the perfect score is a thousand points. "( Push)
Girls: Am I that bad?
Use the push-pull technique in the chat to let the girl’s emotions change from doubtful to happy to a little emotional, and let the girl’s emotions emerge. diversification.
Therefore, when you and a girl enter the cold period of chatting on WeChat, if you still want to continue to develop with her, you should quickly change your thinking, actively create passion, let each other feel fresh again, and evoke the intimacy of chatting. interest. Otherwise, once the cold period is too long, you will only miss an opportunity to get out of the singles.
