Confessing love is a brave thing to do, but sometimes it can feel embarrassing. If you're looking to rekindle a friendship after confessing your love, this article is for you.
1. Accept your feelings
First, you need to accept your feelings. Whether or not the other person accepts your confession, you need to acknowledge your feelings without feeling ashamed or embarrassed about them. Tell yourself that this is just an emotional experience and it does not represent your full worth.
2. Give each other space
Next, give each other some time and space. If the other person rejects your confession, they may need some time to process their feelings. If they accept your confession, it will take time for you to adjust to the new relationship. During this period, do not contact each other too frequently and allow each other enough time to think and calm down.
3. Stay friendly
Whether the other party accepts your confession or not, stay friendly. If you truly want to develop a lasting friendship with this person, then you need to be friendly and respectful. Don't become cold or hostile because the other person rejects your confession, and don't be overly enthusiastic or intrusive because the other person accepts your confession.
4. Find common ground
In the process of re-establishing friendship, it is very important to find common ground with each other. This can help you communicate and get along better. If you have shared interests, hobbies or experiences, you can start from these aspects. If not, then you can try to understand the other person's life, work, family, etc., and find points of resonance.
5. Be honest with each other
Finally, being honest with each other is the foundation of a friendly relationship. Be sincere and open whether you're expressing your feelings or listening to the other person's ideas. If there are any misunderstandings or dissatisfactions between you, communicate and resolve the issues promptly.
In the process of re-establishing friendship, you need to give each other time and space, and be friendly, find common ground, and be honest with each other. Only in this way can the relationship between you be more stable and lasting.