Many people are not very clear about the definition of cheating and normal communication. Some people practice cheating under the guise of communicating with friends, while some people are misunderstood as cheating despite normal communication. Now let’s talk about how much chatting between men and women counts as spiritual cheating?

1. Energetic chatting

If you are not interested in the topics your partner is talking about in a relationship and have no patience to listen, you may even be absent-minded and no longer pay attention to them. , no longer have curiosity and desire to explore, your life is a pool of stagnant water. When you are chatting with another person of the opposite sex, the opposite is true. You and him have endless things to say and endless topics to talk about, and the two people communicate with each other with great energy. Think back to when you first started chatting with your partner, was this the same situation? This state? If you have this kind of feeling for someone else now, it already falls within the boundary of mental infidelity.

2. Mental dependence

In fact, more often, the so-called mental cheating is a kind of mental dependence ( habitual dependence). When you feel pain, pressure, worries, or emotions, the first person you want to talk to is if that person is not your partner or your friend, then he is undoubtedly the person you cheated on. Because when you encounter problems, instead of sharing and asking for help with your partner, you find an outsider, that means your emotional balance is already tilting.

3. Definition of mental infidelity

In fact, there is no concept of mental infidelity in law. Secondly, morality The definition and scope of mental infidelity are not strictly limited. Compared with the specific and intuitive standards of physical infidelity, the standards of mental infidelity can only vary from person to person, that is, how much mental freedom you give your partner: if it exceeds the limit of your tolerance, it is mental infidelity. It has nothing to do with love or not.

Emotions are very complex and have many different classifications. Human love is not only love, but also friendship, family affection, appreciation and admiration. Friendship is more subtle. An overly close and strong friendship with the opposite sex should be regarded as spiritual infidelity. For example, if you don't see each other for one day, it will be like three autumns (it is no different from love). People are complex polyhedrons, and there are parts that even your partner can’t reach. If anyone else can relate to that part, mental infidelity seems inevitable.

Although we are still not clear about the extent to which chatting between men and women counts as spiritual infidelity, we still recommend that everyone should be dedicated in a relationship. If you really don’t love them anymore, then end the relationship and then talk to someone else. Talk about love, otherwise you may hurt two families.