Blind date is not a simple meeting of strangers. The meaning of blind date is to get to know each other. However, if you don’t know how to chat during the blind date, it is very likely to make the atmosphere very awkward. So how should you chat with the girl on the blind date?

How to chat with girls on a blind date?

1. Brief self-introduction

On a blind date for the first time, before chatting with a girl, you should first make a brief introduction Introduce yourself moderately (generally a self-introduction of 2-3 minutes is more moderate), and remember to say hello to the other person.

2. Start chatting with simple topics

After you have briefly introduced yourself, you can start chatting with simple topics, such as today’s weather, current affairs, traffic, etc. Remember to interact with the other person when chatting and don't talk to yourself. If you find that the other person is not interested in the topic you are talking about, you can try a few more topics. If you feel awkward and uncomfortable, you can try ordering some drinks to relieve yourself.

3. Slowly talk about in-depth topics

When you are almost done talking, you can Have more in-depth topics, such as what you do, where you work, etc. At the same time, you can also extend some topics from these. If you understand the other person's work industry, you can share your views. Of course, if you don't understand, you can ask the other person for advice. Don't pretend to understand, as this may make a joke.

4. The topic should not be too in-depth and sensitive

It is best not to involve too personal topics such as family, salary, ex-boyfriend, etc. when chatting on a blind date for the first time. When meeting for the first time, it is easier to leave a good impression on the other person by talking about ordinary and superficial topics. If you ask questions about this and that from the beginning, then you are likely to attract the other party's displeasure.

5. Don’t be too pretentious

Many people will get to know the girl’s profile before going on a blind date, and then Complementing each other’s professional field knowledge! There is nothing wrong with any of these practices. The only mistake is that you want to show that you have corresponding rich knowledge in the other party’s field when you meet! It means forcibly comparing with the other party, which is too much! Behavior is often counterproductive.