Recently, while chatting with my close friends, the topic of love came up, and everyone had endless stories and insights to share. As someone who has navigated the ups and downs of relationships, I couldn't help but share some of my own reflections. After all, love is truly a "required course" that demands continuous learning and growth.

First, regarding the question of "whether girls should take the initiative to pursue boys," I believe that taking the initiative is acceptable, but the approach is crucial. I remember once having a crush on a guy, but instead of confessing directly, I chose to get to know him gradually through conversations. We talked about a lot, from hobbies to daily life, and gradually, he started to understand me better. Later, he asked me out, and we slowly got together. So, my advice is, when you meet someone you like, start with conversations, don't rush into confessing, and give each other a chance to understand one another.

Speaking of conversations, social media platforms like WeChat Moments are actually great "display windows." I have a friend who loves sharing bits of her life on her Moments, such as travel, food, and sports. As a result, a male colleague became interested in her through these photos, added her on WeChat, and they eventually got together. So, girls, don't hesitate to share more about your life, letting others see your diversity and charm.

Of course, there are multiple ways to find a partner. Besides introductions from friends, social apps are also a good option. One of my close friends met her current boyfriend on a social app; they hit it off in their chats and found they were very compatible when they met in person. So, don't dismiss any potential opportunities; your match might just be waiting for you in some corner.

However, whether you're single or in a relationship, the most important thing is to love yourself. I've seen too many girls lose themselves in relationships, changing to please their partners and ultimately losing their own identity. In fact, only when you truly love yourself can you attract someone who truly loves you. Be a positive, sunny, and interesting person—who wouldn't like someone like that?

Talking about changes after getting into a relationship, a netizen commented: "Sometimes a girlfriend really isn't as good as the ten-finger girl." Although this is a bit of a tease, it reflects some real issues. After getting into a relationship, girls often find that some habits and thoughts of boys are different from what they imagined. For example, another netizen said: "The first thing a guy does when he gets home is probably to lie on the sofa or bed!" This is indeed a common phenomenon, but I think it's also an area where mutual understanding and tolerance are needed in a relationship.

Overall, love is a course that requires continuous learning and growth. In this process, we will encounter various challenges and confusions, but we will also gain many beautiful memories and growth. I hope every girl can find her own happiness in love, while also remembering to love herself and be an independent, confident, and interesting person.

Finally, I'd like to ask everyone, what are some unforgettable experiences or insights you've had in your relationships? Feel free to share in the comments!