Many boys want to pursue girls, but they can't even have the most basic conversation. I finally plucked up the courage to add the girl I like on WeChat, but I have been struggling with how to say the first sentence. As a result, it has been several days and I haven't even talked much. In this case, let alone seduce her, it would be difficult even to be ordinary friends.
Next, the editor will tell you how to chat with the girl you like in order to attract her.
If we want to attract the girl we like through chatting, we must first calm down our mentality and tell ourselves that we are not kneeling and licking A goddess is just chatting with an ordinary person, so she doesn't need to put too much pressure on herself.
If you treat her like a god when you first come up, and then you are obedient and cautious, then how can you talk to her all day long?
Originally, you were a very humorous, sunny and handsome young man. I didn't control the rhythm well, and accidentally lost my pace, turning into a chatty punk who could only say "Are you here? What are you doing? Drink more hot water."
In fact, it is easy to identify whether you have become a licker. You can compare the chat records between you and your brother to see the rhythm of your chat with him, and then look at you and the girl. chat history.
Most of the time you will know if you are being a dog licker.
The girl over there didn’t reply to your message, but here you sent it in long paragraphs. Originally, the girl didn’t want to use you as a spare tire, but you were so ambitious that you directed and acted in it. An annual self-pleasure drama, killing countless punk youths in an instant.
This kind of licking dog will not run away! We all know that girls don’t like dog licking.
If she doesn’t reply to you, then don’t contact her. You will reply to her as soon as she responds to you. Who is not an ordinary person anymore? Only by maintaining a good rhythm can we maintain our moral integrity.
Lu Xun once said that all success comes from a dream and unfounded self-confidence. If you want to pursue her, you must believe that you are worthy of her.
You are not asking her to give you a chance, but you are giving her a chance.
Be confident, don’t think about what comes to mind, don’t hesitate, just type it and send it directly.
Then, learn to temporarily forget the purpose of chatting with her, and don’t think about asking the girl out after just one or two chats.
Normally, just have the mentality of making ordinary friends and chat openly.
The problem is that many people have learned some dirty talk from somewhere. The first thing they think about is, are you there? Are you dating? Or they make all kinds of dirty jokes to show their cleverness, and then they are blocked by girls, and they are separated from each other ever since. , just like the lingering love between a man and a ghost.
Sometimes you may not need any slanderous words or routines. Being a normal person is actually better than many people!
The reason why you will be rejected is because you care too much about the results and you want to be with her too much.
Isn’t there a saying that says, the person you like is also a mortal, it’s just that your like has plated her with gold.
Although liking is good, just do it in moderation. You don’t have to be overbearing. Be generous and be generous. Isn’t it better to be a spirited guy?
Of course, there are still certain ways to chat with the girl you like, such as The right time and the right topic.
So when is the best time to chat with a girl?
Many boys always like to chat with each other after get off work, thinking that it will be more convenient for the other party during this time. In fact, this is not necessarily the case. of.
Maybe the girl was still on the subway at that time. You were sending messages one after another, but your phone was in your bag and you couldn’t see it. Many people are more suitable to chat when they are at work.
Many employees in many companies work 8 hours a day. Not many people actually work 8 hours from beginning to end. In fact, those who can work 4 hours are considered model employees. , the other 4 hours are just fishing.
Unlike coming home from get off work, when you are free at the company, there are not many things to interfere with you. You can't watch TV dramas blatantly, there are no pets that suddenly come over to cause trouble, and you don't have to do laundry and cleaning.
Therefore, if you chat with the other party at this time, it will be relatively easier to chat from a psychological point of view.
Of course, this is not absolute, because some people are really busy at work, so you should try to find out as much as possible The other party’s work, life, and study patterns.
In short, try to chat when the other party has time, a lot of time, and there is nothing messy to distract her attention during this time.
As for what topics are better to talk to girls?
Food, movies, music, and travel are all fine. Find something you are good at, or you don’t know much about it. You might as well target a certain topic in advance. Do your homework on a topic.
Maybe you are proficient in multiplayer sports such as Honor of Kings and exciting battlefields, and leading girls to increase points is a good way.
Or you are proficient in big data search, various domestic, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Europe, America, Japan and South Korea, whether it is a romance movie, an action movie, or a romantic action movie, as long as a girl asks you for it, you can get it within 3 seconds Dump her the seed link.
Business does not lie in quantity, but in precision. Mastering core technology is the strongest punk in 2020.
From the perspective of us girls, if a boy really likes us, he will instantly become stupid in front of us.
So, if you really like her, then you don’t need to learn to say such flirtatious words at all. You need to be a little more flexible.Move a little, be generous, and give her a greeting. Just leave everything to time in the end.
