Chat is an essential part of interpersonal communication, but sometimes we encounter awkward silences. How to chat without getting cold feet? Here are three chat tips to help you cope with it.

1. Open a topic

In a chat, opening a suitable topic can liven up the atmosphere. But how to choose a suitable topic? First of all, you must consider the other party's interests, hobbies, professional background and other factors, and then make a choice based on the specific situation.

If you're not sure what to talk about, start with your surroundings. For example, if you are visiting a museum, you can ask each other what they think of the exhibits; or if you are eating, you can talk about the taste and preparation of the dishes.

In addition, when opening a topic, be careful to avoid sensitive topics, such as politics, religion, etc. These topics can easily cause disputes and conflicts and are not conducive to maintaining a good communication atmosphere.

2. Be good at listening

In chatting, it is also very important to be good at listening to what the other party has to say. By listening, you can better understand what the other person is thinking and feeling so you can respond better to them.

While listening, pay attention to the following:

• Maintain eye contact to show your attention and respect ;

• Don’t interrupt the other person’s speech and let the other person fully express their opinions;

• Use body language and responses Show your understanding and empathy.

3. Share your experiences appropriately

In chatting, sharing your experiences appropriately is also a good way of communication. By sharing, you allow the other person to understand you better and inspire them to share their experiences.

However, please pay attention to the following points when sharing:

• Don't show off or complain too much, as this will make people Feel uncomfortable;

• Choose an appropriate time and occasion to share;

• Avoid discussing topics that are too personal or sensitive.

When chatting, you should pay attention to establishing a good interactive relationship with the other party, respect the other party's opinions and feelings, and maintain a positive and optimistic attitude. I believe that by using the above three chat skills, you can easily cope with various chat situations and avoid embarrassing silences.