Maybe you and a girl have a good chat on WeChat and want to further promote your relationship. At this time, many boys will want to ask the girl to meet to see if there is any possibility of development. After all, no matter how good you chat with a girl on WeChat, you can’t see or touch it, let alone what the actual situation is like. It turned out that the girl agreed to meet, but after meeting with the girl, the girl was not active in chatting. Does this mean that there is no chance?
1. You don’t behave well in meetings
Maybe when you chat with a girl online, the girl thinks you are an interesting person and the girl doesn’t hate you. In a better situation, maybe It's a girl who has a crush on you and is willing to keep in touch with you. But it may be that during the meeting between the two of you, you did something that made her disgusted; or you are particularly bad at talking and don't pick up the pot, and your emotional intelligence is low; most directly, maybe your face is... What girls can’t stand the most is that no one can deny that this is an era where looks are important. Even if girls don’t value appearance so much, they still have a certain temperament.
Therefore, boys should reflect on whether you did anything bad when meeting girls, which would make girls feel bad. You may feel disgusted or disgusted. This should be reflected in some details in the process of getting along with you. Maybe many boys are careless and don't know what the problem is. You can ask girls with whom you have a better relationship and recall the details of your relationship. After all, girls understand girls' psychology better.
Putting it all together, you should know the reason. Once you know the reason, you will know what aspects should be changed. Pay more attention. The next step is to make girls change their view of you again.
2. The girl is busy
Maybe you chat with the girl at first, and then make an appointment to meet. At this time, the girl is relatively free, and she has enough time to chat with you. But due to work or life reasons, girls suddenly start to be busy with their own affairs. The feedback to boys is that girls are not active in chatting. In this case, you can ask the girl what the specific situation is and see if there is anything you can do to help her. If the girl is willing to tell you, it means that your relationship is okay. If a girl is either really busy or indifferent to you, that means she is not interested in you anymore.
3. Girls return to reason
This is more high-end, involving games between men and women. Some girls are Compulsory abstinence system, does not like love between men and women. At first attracted by your hormones, you are like a spider spinning a web. It caught her at first, but she always had faith in her heart. She struggled, and before she could break free, she was temporarily Her hormones are bursting with enjoyment of this moment. Once she calms down and lets her break free, she will return to that frigid state. If you want to capture her again, it will be impossible. This situation is relatively rare. If you are not unfortunate enough to encounter it, then congratulations on winning the lottery, it is better to give up as soon as possible.
4. The girl likes someone else
Maybe the girl is chatting with you, but she is also talking to someone else when she meets you. After being in contact with boys, girls still think that other boys are better after comprehensive consideration, so girls are no longer active towards you, and girls turn to be active towards other boys, and girls naturally have no time to care about you. When you meet a girl like this, you will be sad and helpless, but you will happily go around telling people that you have found true love.
