Some girls always only say "um", "ah" and "oh" when replying to other people's words, which makes it difficult to communicate with them. So, how should we reply to such a girl? Here are some different ways to reply.
1. Ask the other party clearly what they mean
When you communicate with such a girl, if she only After replying with "um" or "ah", you can take the initiative to ask: "What do you mean?" or "Can you be more specific?" This can guide her to express her thoughts better and avoid misunderstandings. .
2. Give affirmation and encouragement
Some girls may only reply with simple words because they are shy or not sure of their own ideas. At this time, we can give them affirmation and encouragement, such as: "Thank you for your reply, I understand." or "You said it very well, I agree with you."
3. Propose Questions to guide the conversation
If you want to have an in-depth communication with such a girl, you can ask some questions to guide the conversation. For example: "How do you think this problem can be solved?" or "Have you ever encountered a similar situation?" This can allow them to participate in the conversation more actively.
4. Give your own opinions
Sometimes, such girls may just want to hear other people's opinions, but are not willing to express their own ideas. At this time, we can give our own opinions and invite them to discuss it together. For example: "I think... what do you think?" or "If it were me, I would do this, what do you think?"
5. Respect the other person's choice
Finally , no matter what such girls reply, we should respect their choice. If they don’t want to say anything, we shouldn’t force them. After all, everyone has their own personality and way of doing things, and we need to learn to be tolerant and understanding.
When we meet a girl who only replies with simple words, we can communicate by asking clearly, affirming and encouraging, asking questions, giving our own opinions, and respecting the other person's choice. I hope everyone can communicate more smoothly and effectively with others.
